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You walk through the Forest of Customer Experience and hear the gentle sound of flowing water. Through the dense foliage winds an idyllic, meandering path leading to a river. As you approach, you see your customer Anna drifting in a small boat on the River of Customer Contact. She looks around anxiously. Her package, which was supposed to arrive two days ago, has still not been delivered. She hopes to receive an answer to her pressing question soon and calls out with some frustration in her voice: “What is the status of my package and how will this be resolved?”
She has been drifting on the River of Customer Contact for a while, passing currents created by previous marketing messages promising fast delivery. Along the banks, she encounters small islands with reviews from others showing their experiences. Previous interactions with your organisation also leave their traces. The boat moves with the water, driven by everything she has already seen and heard, and by her expectation that this issue with the late package will be resolved quickly and smoothly.
This proverbial River of Customer Contact always flows, even when you are not there. Customers continuously form their experiences and compare them with their expectations, so the current never stops. Sometimes the water winds calmly, reflecting the harmony of a well-organised customer experience. Other times it flows wild and unpredictably, with friction, frustration and confusion visible in the customer’s experience.
As Anna drifts in her boat, she looks at you. She thinks: “Am I being heard?” “Is my situation being taken seriously?” “Is there clarity about what will happen next?” When you welcome her properly, listen actively, acknowledge her frustration, apologise for the delay and clearly explain the next step, the water around her boat calms. It flows smoothly; she feels recognised, valued and understood. Her irritation subsides, she can trust and knows: this person will solve it for me.
The power and direction of the current
Positive experiences are like calmly flowing water around the boat. The customer feels safe, heard and appreciated. Small gestures can already make a big difference: a friendly tone, a quick update, a smile when handing over a form. These are the details that keep the water calm.
Negative experiences can be compared to whirlpools or sudden turbulent patches that unbalance the boat. One wrong move or unclear communication can immediately carry the customer toward a competitor. This is how you lose someone to an organisation that pays attention, communicates clearly and resolves small problems quickly.
How the water flows in the River of Customer Contact is influenced in many ways. The price of a product or service already affects the current. With a higher price, one expects a deep, powerful current: service that flows smoothly and professionally, quality that is worthwhile, and attention that makes a difference. With a lower price, the current is often less strong, but basic expectations such as politeness, correct execution and clear communication are always present. With a conscious approach, you can keep that foundation stable and sometimes even exceed it, regardless of the price.
The different layers in the river
The River of Customer Contact consists of multiple layers of expectations. Together, these determine how smoothly an interaction runs and how the customer experiences it.
- Basic expectations form the riverbed. The package should arrive, the service is performed correctly, mistakes are neatly resolved. If this fails, the boat risks capsizing.
- Stated expectations indicate the direction the customer wants to follow. “I want the package today or tomorrow” or “I want to know where it is.” You can actively manage these. Expectations can be adjusted by explaining what is possible. This prevents the boat from later hitting the rocks.
- Unstated expectations are the currents beneath the surface that you cannot see but can feel. Politeness, timely responses, clear communication or a clean car at delivery. Essential for an Ultimate Customer Experience.
- Emotional expectations are the sense of safety in the boat. Being heard, taken seriously, feeling valued and cared for. This strongly determines whether the customer continues calmly or leaves angrily.
- Performance expectations relate to the functionality of the boat. Does the package arrive, is the problem solved, does it deliver what was promised? It is about the actual quality of delivery.
- Exceeded expectations occur when you truly go one step further. Many people think this requires a large gift or gesture. In reality, a small, thoughtful gesture often makes the biggest difference.
How to exceed expectations
Consider sending an update before the customer asks. Let them know the issue has already been investigated and provide a solution immediately, or expedite the package delivery. Sometimes a suitable alternative is enough to restore trust.
For the customer, it feels as if the water around the boat suddenly becomes calmer and clearer. They notice that someone is thinking along with them and looking ahead. They don’t have to fight the current but are helped to navigate smoothly.
These are very important moments! They determine whether customers become enthusiastic, talk about you, write positive reviews and return to you. They see that the organisation is not only about profit but genuinely values the customer feeling heard, helped and appreciated.
The first 30 seconds
In the first 30 seconds of the conversation, the power and direction of the current in the river are set. The customer quickly senses whether they are welcome, taken seriously and truly helped.
This happens on the phone through your tone and pace, face-to-face through your posture and presence, and in an email or chat through tone and choice of words. Before the content is even discussed, the customer already forms a feeling that colours the rest of the contact.
You have more influence than you think. How you enter, your tone, your posture, your first sentence and the way you summarise what the customer says. These are all levers to keep the boat stable, reduce turbulence and build trust.
Navigating the river
You cannot stop or redirect the river, but you can learn to navigate it, smooth obstacles, avoid whirlpools and give clear instructions about the next step. This makes the customer feel safe, recognised and reassured that your organisation is professional, involved and reliable.
Those who master this do not see customer contact as separate actions, but as a continuous process of expectation management: recognising, guiding, relieving and sometimes surprising. Every move you make affects the boat and the current around it.
Discover how to do this yourself
Do you want to learn how to let every customer drift on a calm, positive current in the River of Customer Contact? How to prevent whirlpools and not only understand expectations but consciously exceed them? You can!
In our training The Ultimate Customer Experience, you learn step by step how to master the river of customer contact. From the first greeting to the moment the customer continues safely and satisfied. We teach you a mindset and method that improves every interaction. Once you master this, it not only changes how your customers feel but also how they talk about your organisation.
Do you want to first find out how good your customer experience is before signing up for the training? Then take the free Quickscan.
